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In the Midst of Woes, #Messiah

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The lee stone from The Secret of NIHM.

Praising through the Bible book of Isaiah, chapter 32, verses one and two (in parentheses my words).

Behold a king will reign righteously (Our Savior)

And princes will rule justly,

Each will be like a refuge from the wind (Jesus our refuge)

And a shelter from the storm (holding us up in the storm)

Like streams of water in a dry country (Living Water for our souls)

Like the shade of a huge rock in a parched land (our shelter forevermore).

Then I read the study note for verse two, “Each is the Lord’s redeemed, as sources of protection and blessing, will reflect Him.” Jesus is this to me, and I am to be and to do this for others.

Let the redeemed of the Lord say so.

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Posted by on January 15, 2019 in Soul Fare


Making Up Words to #Songs

Screen Shot 2017-06-29 at 7.52.55 AMMy hearing tests perfect, but I am The Worst at hearing the lyrics to songs. As a child I sang Away In a Manger on Christmas Eve at Grandma’s house changing one line to “But little George Jesus no crying he makes…” Course when you’re a kid and Grandpa’s name is George, everybody thinks your mistake is so cute. Not so much when your an adult, a diplomat no less, trading out some words in The Star Spangled Banner.

This morning the temptation to keep reading an engrossing paranormal novel came at me, and I turned away thinking, Wasn’t it just last night I asked friends on our FFHA* Facebook group if there was anything I could pray over for them?  Thus, the singing began with a tune from our last church service in The Netherlands.

I sing because You are good
And I dance because You are good
And I shout because You are good
You are good to me, to me

Well, I didn’t even remember the words to the chorus I saw on screen a few days ago. My version went something like this: I shout because you are good, And I laugh because you are good, And I dance because you are good, You are good to me. And I live because you are good, and I…

You get the picture.

There’s another worship song I alter purposefully to use when speaking about Biblical Financial Principles. Titled “The Heart of Worship” we sing a prayer, “I’m coming back to the heart of worship, And it’s all about you, It’s all about you Jesus. I’m sorry Lord for the thing I’ve made it, When it’s all about you, It’s all about you Jesus.” My version repeats this chorus several times with various substitutions. “I’m coming back to the heart of my marriage…I’m coming back to the heart of parenting…I’m coming back to the heart of my finances, And it’s all about you, It’s all about you Jesus.”

I love how this song works for, well, most every thing, and it includes a confession. Keeping the eyes of my soul focused on Jesus isn’t easy. Squirrel! I’m easily distracted. Then I can turn back at any moment, day or night singing, “I’m sorry Lord for the thing I’ve made it, When it’s all about you, It’s all about you Jesus.”

In the Bible book of Psalms it is written, “Sing to the LORD a new song; sing to the LORD, all the earth” (Psalms 96:1). You and I may not have the talent to write new songs, but I sure can make new songs out of old ones without even trying. Maybe you don’t even know any so-called church songs, but I don’t think that matters when we choose to sing to God. “The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness.”

We might turn Hoobastank’s The Reason into a prayer or Evanescence’s Wake Me Up Inside. The Lord our God will rejoice over us.

I love that about Him.


*FFHA stands for Friends of Future Hope Africa, the FB group of our NGO that is currently crowdfunding the only Vacation Bible School in East Congo. Check us out!



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#Retirement Goes #Sideways

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Before the computer blue screen there was this TV screen.

The military lifestyle, although not without sacrifice, is not without benefits. My husband’s career took us to far away places to live: Germany, Italy, Belgium, The Netherlands, Arizona, Maryland, and North Carolina. He was on mission, and the adventure we had together brought excitement, travel, new food, and best of all new friends literally from all over.

The plan for retirement was to continue similar work as a civilian. My vision had us living in new places with new people. I wanted to take advantage of globetrotting travel opportunities close to wherever we would live next, and after that, and after that.

“Your will, not mine,” is the prayer of the devout. It’s Jesus’ words as he prepared to die for you and me. Dire circumstances for a profound goal. The interruption in Jesus’ life was his death. My interruption is going back to Kentucky. Not very earth shattering, and yet I’ve been struggling to let go of my will in exchange for God’s will.

Do you struggle with that as well? Our vision was set, and now God is leading us into His vision. Our plans have to be scrapped, but we know God’s plan is still going strong. Maybe like me you really thought He was on board with your plan, but now comes the interruption, the derailment, a completely different turn of events.

All those job opportunities that were available three or four years ago are gone. There’s a hiring freeze. There’s new enforcement of old rules. One by one every door has closed. Every window. There is only one way left to walk forward after my husband’s retirement, and it is back to small town life, to his hometown in Kentucky. And as much as I love our families, and our hometowns, and the idea of being close to them, this was not the plan.

Do I turn to God and say “not my will but yours?” Is my reaction positive? No. I’ve been angry, resentful, and honestly mourning the loss. No one died. No one is sick. My life has been interrupted by a good turn. I just wasn’t ready for that. The settling down was supposed to come later…in my plan.

“‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,’ declares the LORD” (Bible book of Isaiah 55:8)

That was the verse, the first verse in my recent group Bible study. For seven weeks we have looked at Jonah’s life, at his poor reaction to a change in plans, at what it took to bring him back from rebellion. This video study was lead by Priscilla Shirer who says we can see life interruptions as “divine intervention” in Jonah’s life and in our own lives.

For the last two weeks God has been bringing me around. Gladly no time in the belly of a big fish was required. God keeps reminding me that He is good. (Count the blessings I’ve poured out on you.) That He is love. (Remember how I gave my son to die for you?) That His timing is perfect. (Remember how adopting your sons worked out, Kristin?) That His plans for me are not only for good but for the best. (Remember what you asked for and I said ‘No’ and what came next?)

So I’m giving God my sorrow knowing He will give me His joy. I’m saying “Yes, Lord. Yes, Lord” (Lyrics-Trading My Sorrows). Each day I find something new to look forward to in our coming rural-America life.

Today I opened my Jonah homework and saw these words: THE INTERRUPTED LIFE is the significant life.

Before Jonah’s direction was changed by God, he was just another prophet with barely a mention in Second Kings 14:25. Now his story is one far greater, even his bad behavior is a lesson, and he’s become a blessing across the years to multitudes.

My wide cultural adventures may come to an end this summer, but embracing what God has next, what His plan is for this interruption, this turning point, this about face, is where life becomes significant. God is moving. He is preparing the way, not just any way but His way for me and my family.

I am singing, “He gives and takes away. He gives and takes away. My heart will choose to say, blessed be the Name.” (Blessed Be the Name of the LORD)

What comes next?

Better. That’s what.


Thanks to Priscilla Shirer and Jonah: Navigating Life Interrupted.




Posted by on May 30, 2017 in Unexpected Blessings


Foreign Emergency Room – Spain Edition

img_1727No hablo español, and it turns out my son’s two years of middle school Spanish was not very helpful in a Catalan influenced ER. We soon realized we were on equal footing with the hospital staff since none of them spoke English. What amazes me though is how we all got by with only two real issues to speak of.

The receptionist in the ER wanted the typical information. I’ve had enough experience in emergency rooms to be able to guess the drill. I passed over ID, insurance card, passport, and pretty much anything else I could think of she might want to check.

She asked a long question out of which my son was able to translate one word, “pain.” “Left foot” meant nothing to her, so from my wheel-chair seat I brought my foot up over my head where she could see it through the glass partition. She nodded and wrote notes on the computer.

We frowned over her next question and she started google translate when memory clicked-in. How was I injured? I stood two fingers on the opposite palm and showed my little-hand person falling down, which, by the way, is actually the American Sign Language for “fall.” ASL can be quite helpful, as can vast practice with hand motions in general.

The Spanish hospital in east Cartegena was quite modern. We took a number and the six of us waited for the intake exam while watching a split screen of number calls and what might have been football (i.e. soccer) stats. Our crew tends to spread and took up about half the small waiting area. I think that’s why my number came up before other prior arrivals.

The intake nurse repeated the words that meant nothing to my brain. Pointing at my foot and signing “fall” let him fill in his computer page. His exam consisted of poking the bruise on my foot so I shrieked in pain.”Radiología,” he said. Common Latin roots are helpful in medical situations. Armed with a wristband for my name and number, our family of six was directed to a large waiting area at the front of the hospital where huge glass windows framed the pink, sand, and dusty green of morning sunshine on the mountainous terrain outside. Even at the hospital, Spain’s Alicante region took my breath away.

img_1661Other folks who’d waited longer were helpful when my number came up early with a room designation we could not locate. My eldest son pushed me where directed till an orderly took over and pointed him back. I think he was relieved to be relieved of his translation duties.

Neither this male orderly, who parked me blocking the hall for a while, nor the female orderly, who wove me through narrow passages to radiology and back, spoke any English. They were both chipper about it all, spoke to everyone in passing, and were even calling me by name.

The wider hall outside x-ray was half the size of my living room with eight of us waiting, two in their rolling hospital beds. Tight quarters by any measure, I was again left blocking what might have served as a thoroughfare. One person went in the far x-ray, and remarkably my foot took second place.

The attendant didn’t bother to talk after learning my lack of language skills. Unlike the US custom, she did not offer me a lead bib for protection, although there was one (was that dust?) hanging in the corner. She lowered the x-ray table and pulled out a pocket extension from the side of it whereby the x-ray could be taken with me still seated in the wheelchair. Terrific. I’d never seen the like, although I’ve been privy to three hospitals in two other countries for five x-rays in as many years. (I mentioned I have four sons, right?)

“Kristine-a” the orderly greeted as she wheeled me back to my family in the large picturesque room. Seats were fast filling. In my Dutch E.R. post I mentioned how entire families with grandma and grandpa, both parents and all the siblings were not uncommon in The Netherlands emergency areas. Spain was more like America in that only the one necessary driver appeared to accompany the injured. Our English-speaking, mixed-race family had become an island of word-game playing folk in a for-business space. This was the longest wait of day, and I loved how my husband turned this down-time into fun time for the children who were missing out on pool, beach, and ball play because their mom is a clutz.

Our youngest signing my cast poolside.

Our youngest signing my cast poolside.

The language barrier only became an issue in two areas. First, the casting room staff would not tell me what to do very well and were reluctant to cause me pain by situating my foot properly. This first cast shocked me. The expected cool, wet strips of casting net were placed from top of calf to tippy-toe on layers that quickly turned warm. Soon my lower leg relaxed in its heating-pad encasement. Ahh.

The second language issue was that I was given no after-care instructions, no way to get crutches, nada. We only had a photocopy of the break with the hospital info and “ibenprofeno” near the bottom. My husband wheeled me to the car wondering how we’d get around for the rest of week. Climbing into the car, I struggled to twist and lift the 20 pounds of lead on my calf.

“Maybe we can just get a cane,” I said.

“Maybe,” my husband frowned.

He got one alright. That’s when we discovered the awkward angle of my foot made it impossible to walk on that leg. Soon the plastic deck chair was back under my knee helping me hobble around for the rest of the week. My kids missed some playtime time with Mommy and sand castle building, but mostly I did what was normal. I lounged in the sun listening to the surf, watching my children play, and reading great ebooks.

Padded chair

Padded chair

There was an unexpected blessing as well. Unable to get a chair in the rental car, we still went out for the long-awaited paella I’d promised the boys ever since first raving about it on my writing trips to Majorca. We chose a restaurant next to a large beach/souvenir shop, and what do you think we found? A nicely padded wooden chair sat by the dumpster waiting to provide the assistance I needed. “Thank you, Jesus,” I said. My five guys saw the Punic Wall, Roman Theater, and other incredible sites of the port of Cartegena without me, but I truly believe our sons had great guy-time with dad they wouldn’t have gotten otherwise.

“Better me than one of the children,” I’ve said repeatedly since breaking my foot. It is so true.

Next up…Doctor Aghast in the Dutch E.R.

Related Posts:

E.R. Weight Limits (Life in Holland)

Holland Expat – Emergency Room Gate Keepers

Spain for Six – History in a Day


Kristin King is an author and US expat living in The Netherlands. She got her first cast in Spain, her second in the Dutch ER four days later, and her third four days after that. Kristin sincerely hopes she is done with casts and broken bones for good.


Posted by on August 17, 2016 in Travel, Unexpected Blessings


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Pointy White Hats at School? (Unexpected Blessing – Christmas)

Screen Shot 2015-12-03 at 10.13.49 AMGrowing up in the rural south, I thought I knew what those guys in pointy white hats were all about. If you’re American and know about the KKK, you can imagine my surprise at walking into my sons’ international school and seeing young men and boys in white robes wearing tall, white, pointed hats.

The costume of the KKK, an image of hate and terror from my childhood

The costume of the KKK, an image of hate and terror from my childhood

I did not know the tradition of several Scandinavian countries to celebrate Santa Lucia on December 13th near the time of the Winter Solstice.

Around Christmas time….The celebration comes from stories that were told by Monks who first brought Christianity to Sweden.

St Lucia was a young Christian girl who was martyred, killed for her faith, in 304AD. The most common story told about St Lucia is that she would secretly bring food to the persecuted Christians in Rome, who lived in hiding in the catacombs under the city. She would wear candles on her head so she had both her hands free to carry things. Lucy means ‘light’ so this is a very appropriate name. (More here.)

Who could resist following the girls with their crowns and all the children in white to the auditorium? Not me. A beautiful older student stood in St. Lucy’s place leading the parade of children and youth. The fiery candles burning on her crown made me hope she hadn’t worn much hair spray. By candle light traditional carols drifted with the light smoke odor to my ears.

Our international school's celebration last year

Our international school’s celebration last year

The song from the procession repeated as the children filed out. Which carol was it? I wondered as I later read the first lines of three: The night walks with heavy steps, or Saint Lucy bright mirage, or the modern Outside it is dark and cold. Regardless, it was an all together lovely celebration followed by cookies and country displays in the cafeteria.

Living overseas, so much is entirely new to me yet parts of age old traditions to others. I find I am grateful for the unexpected blessing of those pointy white hats. A vision long associated with extremism, racism, and terror in my country has been, if not redeemed, at least altered. I have a new vision superimposed over the one of  hatred and violence. A vision of light and the love that Christ inspired in one young woman, a girl named Lucy.


Kristin King is an author, US expat in Holland, and co-founder of the nonprofit Future Hope Africa. Unexpected Blessings is a category of posts that includes Am I a Bad Mom? and Sunrise Over Port de Pollenca.

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Sunrise Over Port de Pollenca, Spain


My blog used to have the subtitle “Night Writer,” so you might not expect me to catch the sunrise on my Majorcan Writers Retreat, but I did. That’s what I call an Unexpected Blessing when you’re headed to the restroom.


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When Is Writing Not the Thing – Majorca Writing Retreat

The view from my writing station (photo below).

The view from my writing station (photo below).

When my host invited me to Spain to do a writers retreat together, I did not even know where in Spain she lived. It was definitely an Unexpected Blessing. What I knew was that my family’s move to Holland, arrival the week of school orientation, and busy schedule for my four sons and the settling into a new country had slowed my own writing to the pace of an inch worm–my own special form of writer’s block. Edits for others and publishing work were squeezed in here and there and even blogging about life as an expat in the Netherlands fit occasionally, but solid time where I was able to focus inward, to release my own creative impulses through written words were few and far between.

I refuse to let this year slip by without finishing the third novel in my series. The writers retreat is the time away from all other responsibilities to breathe life across the embers of characters, plots, and imagination. Although I did not finish the novel on my work-a-tion, the climactic scene came to me sitting on the balcony overlooking a Mediterranean bay on my first trip to Spain. Beyond the distractions of beautiful locale, walled-city market, sumptuous victuals, the writing is the thing.

One of my writing stations in Mallorca.

One of my writing stations in Mallorca.

Famous writers often mention how reading and writing dovetail. The only reading I brought was my own books, 2 novels and one novella re-read cover to cover, immersing myself in the world I created with the characters I was missing. Perhaps in a lack-luster environment I could have accomplished more, but what I got done was very satisfying.

Thank you dear friend for opening your home to me, talking writing every day, luring me out in the sun as needed, and being the ever gracious host and friend. Here’s to you and 23K+ words in seven days. And thanks to my husband who took the time off to spend with the children and encourages me in every way.

Writing would never be the thing without the people who make it possible.

Grateful. Every. Single. Day.


 Kristin King is an army wife, mother of 4 sons, author, publisher, president of a nonprofit, and American expat living in Holland. Her first series, Begotten Bloods (BB), is paranormal romance.

Unsinkable Vampire (BB .5)

Cain’s Coven (BB 1)

Death Taint (BB 2)

Works in Progress: Blood Siren (BB 3) and Christmas Consort (BB 3.5)



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